THUNAIBonding with the baby (in the womb or after birth) is one of the most enjoyable activities of infant care.
Most mothers and fathers instinctively do this - who wouldnt want to cuddle and coo to a sweet baby!
But in the busy-ness of our modern lives, there is a need to make this intentional activity. This bonding activity is a foundation for the baby to develop secure attachment.
Here are some ways to bond (hat tip to parents.com )
1. Give baby a massage...
2. Sing (or play and sing along) your favorite songs to the baby...
3. Look in the mirror together
4. Sleep with the baby when its sleeping
5. Do some bonding with your husband...the baby will like the vibes!
6. First 3 months, pick up the baby when it cries.
7. Swaddle the baby - use the "Thooli" cloth or a saree to do it.
8. Practice long exhales when the baby is crying and you are frustrated.
9. Talk to your baby in a soft voice...we wont be laughing at you...
10. Go skin to skin...(especially important if baby is pre-term)
Here is a video Bonding Tips
Enjoy!!!